Do you think Wedding Planners are useful?

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Permalink Reply by Sharon Danley on December 21, 2009 at 12:08pm

Its been my experience and those of some of my brides that planners can interfere rather than help with the agreements between brides and their vendors. And on the other side of the fence planners have helped tremendously. From my perspective I work directly with the bride in order to avoid any undue stress.

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Permalink Reply by Celestial Event on December 21, 2009 at 2:32pm

Sharon,
I could not agree more but I prefer to work with both the B&G and the planner whenever possible.
I have had really good and really bad experiences with planners. A good planner can make it all run smoothly and help facilitate the dissemination of information between vendors while a few others will make the experience very difficult for all of us.
Cooperation, communication and the sharing of responsibilities is key.
Lou

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Permalink Reply by BarBop on December 21, 2009 at 9:12pm

I think great planners are like stress nuetralizers. Stress should go in to their brain and come out of their mouths like chamomille tea. If a wedding planner can not do this, in my opinion, they should change careers. Hope that makes sense :)

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Permalink Reply by Maglente on January 27, 2011 at 10:40pm

Like your comments LOL

 

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Permalink Reply by WicksnCandlesticks on December 24, 2009 at 12:31am

I am a certified wedding and event planner and have worked in the event industry for years. With that being said, there are many brides that are on a tight budget who can not afford a wedding planner. It's my job to sell them on my service with offering different price points and if I can't sell my service than I am not a good salesperson.

However, I do volunteer my time on a website that offers assistance for diy brides. The main reason why I do this is that there are brides that cannot afford to hire a wedding planner and that I do believe in giving of your time and talent. I know people might not agree with me, but its just how I feel as a wedding planner and it has not hurt my business.

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Permalink Reply by Casaundra Bronner on June 28, 2011 at 7:13pm

I would be interested in learning more about the website if you care to share.

 

Thanks

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Permalink Reply by john and colette on December 28, 2009 at 6:50pm

I agree. Planners are invaluable! As a makeup artist (and second camera) I work closely with a bride weeks before the event for her beauty trial-run and again during the last few hours leading up to the ceremony. Here is where I see the immense difference with the bride who has professional help and the bride who has opted to "save" and tend to the details herself or she relies on a family member (who by nature of their personal relationship is dealing with many "hot" buttons-not to mention they are distracted from doing the job because they want so much to delight in the day too!) now this family member is in charge of tending to the MANY details that need last minute adjustments. The bride without a pro planner has her phone ringing during our hair and makeup session. The calls come from various family members and vendors, asking where to set-up, which way to display items from flowers to seating assignments. The bride is usually cordial and then it happens she gets to the limit and checks-out, she internalizes and gets a far-away look that says "I'm overwhelmed" I see this every time! and it often shows in her photos. I also edit our photographs and see this firsthand. The bride who understands the real value of working with a professional planner will make educated choices because she has an experienced guide and she'll be introduced to vendors that have a stellar reputation. A wedding is live - no chance of a re-shoot. In my opinion the time in makeup, on the wedding day is a perfect opportunity for a bride to relax and let go. Becoming a bride with clear head and a light heart will center her in the moment. It doesn't just happen. I've witnessed the difference many times over. A planner is worth it!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by Gabbi Grace Events by Lisa Smith on December 29, 2009 at 11:03am

Wedding planners are a tremendous help when planning a wedding!! I am a Certified Professional Wedding Palnner as well as an instructor at the local college teaching both the weddding and event planner certification courses as professional wedding/event planners we invest alot of time and energy into our businesses so that we can provide the best possible services for our clients we know how to effictively problem solve, plan ,coordinate and excute a wedding we have taken time to build relationships with wedding/event industry professional so that we are educated on the services that they provide and know the who,what and where to find the best services and deals for our clients so to any bride wondering if they should hire a Professional wedding planner ask yourself these questions :

1. Do I have 40 hours a week or more to invest in planning a wedding?
2. Have I built relationships with wedding industry professionals that will offer a discounted prices?
3. 1 hour before the wedding the cake falls over do I know a bakery that can come in and fix the problem or can my wedding planner handle this task?
4. Can my bestfriend,cousin or aunt provide a professional staff, handle all of the details and enjoy my wedding as a guest/wedding planner all at the same all while remaining professional?
5. During times of chaos and confusion within the family(ies) can my bestfriend,cousin,or aunt remain calm and be an effective mediator without picking sides and remaining neutral?
6. Hiring a professional Wedding Planner helps saves me money?

If you have answered no to any of these questions then you may want consider hiring a Professional Wedding Planner.
Go ahead and give us a call we love to plan weddings we don't bite.

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Permalink Reply by Tanya Porter on January 18, 2010 at 11:44am

With the economy the way it is, utilizing a planner can help her keep her budget in check. While I don't believe in asking vendors to "discount" I will go to them, give them the budget the couple has designated for their speciality and ask what they can do for xxx amount of money. They can either work with me or say no. Generally most people are happy to work something out. It may be doing away with some services that the couple doesn't want or need etc.

As others have mentioned, we also make sure the bride doesn't make mistakes or misses something important. We take the worry and stress off them and their families and allow them to enjoy the day. If they really can't afford a planner, they can afford a good guide such as WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE, A Bride's Workbook (c) which takes them step by step through the planning, then ask a good friend to act as their planner. They should ask a friend to be their day of coordinator only as a last result!

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Permalink Reply by Taylor Made Invites on January 18, 2010 at 11:54am

A wedding planner is absolutely a useful tool as long as the wedding planner is skilled in his/her craft. By hiring a wedding planner it is essential that you show the bride how hiring him/her can save money with their wedding knowledge.
A bride/groom should save well over your fee and you should be abe to document that to the couple.

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Permalink Reply by Carmen Quirindongo on January 18, 2010 at 12:32pm

Good afternoon,

I have been trying to get in touch with wedding planners by emailing directly to Caterers and Cruiselines.......no one has gotten in touch with me. How can I obtain a wedding planner that specializes in Beach theme weddings. The reason for my request is that I make a couture wedding favor and I would love to show it to a wedding planner so that she might show the product to a potential bride considering a beach theme wedding. Any information would be greatly appreciated.

Sincerely,
Carmen

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Permalink Reply by ANNA MARIA MUNIZ on January 18, 2010 at 2:37pm

This is what i have been telling all my new prospects and they have signed on. At the end they are truly happy and stress free. It is more reliable when using a Wedding Planner, we can get discounts and usally lots of venues prefer us to be on board.

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