If Brides only knew......

To all Wedding professionals,
What do you wish your brides knew BEFORE they came to you for your services?????

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Permalink Reply by Eleven Republic on November 29, 2009 at 10:41am

Weddings in Puerto Rico are cheaper than they think!

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Permalink Reply by Fraternal Order of Eagles #437 on November 30, 2009 at 10:36am

I wish Brides knew the quality of our food, service and facility. I wish they knew that we don't have five hour time limits. I wish they knew that most of the time we are 30% less expensive than our competitors. I wish they knew how hard that my staff and I work for each and every one of them! If they knew all of this, they wouldn't be so stressed out running around to other facilities, only to come back to us!

Kathy Huillmann
Banquet Coordinator

Fraternal Order of Eagles #437
Springfield, Il 217-720-0947

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Permalink Reply by Annie Byrne on November 30, 2009 at 10:53am

Brilliant Kathy!

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Permalink Reply by Celestial Event on November 30, 2009 at 11:48am

I would prefer a bride and groom know and understand the difference between a DJ and a DJ who is also "Professional Wedding Host".

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Permalink Reply by Planning with Excellence on March 4, 2011 at 4:54pm

Oh, my goodness. I second that. I once had a bride hire a DJ that stuttered. Guess what he could not do? MC or make announcements. Cutting corners and watching the budget is fine but don't do so at the risk of ruining your event.

The other is the difference between the coordinator at your venue site and a wedding coordinator.

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Permalink Reply by Bride to Bridesmaids on March 6, 2011 at 2:37am

That is a great one! There is such a big difference!

www.bridetobridesmaid.blogspot.com

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Permalink Reply by Judy Stark on November 30, 2009 at 11:55am

Brides need a condensed version of things they needs to do and know before talking to their first vendor or trying on their first wedding dress. The number of brides who come into my store thinking they have plenty of time to buy/order their wedding dress with only two or three months before the wedding are under a big misconception. Brides need to be seriously thinking about purchasing/ordering their wedding dress at least nine months before the wedding to insure 'on time' delivery and with enough lead time just in case there is a problem with their dress. Problems do happen about 10% of the time. Waiting until the last minute not only limits the bride to her choices, but also adds additional rush cut and rush transit charges. And when a bride waits until the last minute, this will also greatly impact the bridal party who also now have to rush cut and rush ship their dresses.

Judy Stark
Wedding Center USA
Modesto, CA
(209) 521.5600
www.weddingcenterusa.com

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Permalink Reply by Celestial Event on November 30, 2009 at 12:14pm

Judy Stark,
An excellent point and well made.
Brides should follow this advice with all vendors and that includes DJ/Wedding Hosts.

Deciding early on a time line, or the names of the wedding party and family to be introduced, creating music play and do not play lists, yes or no on slide and/or video shows, what stories to be told and shared, what announcements to be made, who should be recognized, what traditional or non traditional events they want to be included etc will make those last days before the Big Day so much less stressful and even fun.

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Permalink Reply by Wendy Hartigan on January 4, 2011 at 2:39pm

This is SO true! Having been in bridal sales, before opening my planning business, I saw many things happen that impacted the bride in a negative way. I think that brides get so caught up in the "trying on" and the fun of shopping that they lose sight of what is really important. Having a planner on board before doing anything can keep a bride on track along the way. A planner can help you find the right vendors, save money and have a perfect wedding. But, no matter, a bride needs to allow at least nine months to order a dress and 3-4 months for bridesmaids. Trust me, I ran several stores- the shop is not lying!

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Permalink Reply by Astounding Events & Expressions on November 30, 2009 at 12:01pm

We wish brides had an idea of what they were looking for in their flowers and decorations and had a budget in mind. That would help us make recommendations that will keep them in their budget and also create arrangements that will provide their desired look for the finished product for their wedding day.

Shannon Baker
Astounding Events & Expressions
Washington Metropolitan Area
301-538-4872
www.astoundingevents.com

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Permalink Reply by Branching Out Floral on December 14, 2009 at 6:52pm

Amen to that Shannon! So many times brides wait to meet with the floral designer until the end of the planning process...when they have spent way more than they intended on venue, food, bars, limos,etc...and then want the over the top look for very little $$. Then they just begin "price shopping" instead of going to the floral designer early to know what the decor will cost.

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Permalink Reply by Judy Chadwick on February 23, 2010 at 3:03pm

I'll third this! It applies to the cake as well. I had a couple who booked the site they loved which came with a required caterer. Between the venue and the food, they had already spent almost their entire budget. By the time they got to me they had only $400 for cake to feed 200 people!

I'd love to see more brides getting a good wedding planner involved early in the planning stages. A wedding planner can help with creating a realistic budget, and finding a venue and wedding professionals who fit that budget.