Groomsmen's Responsibilities

When groomsmen first began, they began as a means of protection for the groom. They were the “bodyguards” ensuring that the groom was able to take his place beside his bride. Times have changed since this custom first originated however.  It originally took place when things such as kingdoms were uniting through a wedding, or a single union of two high standing people, could substantially change a situation (or entire countries for that matter). As times changed so did many pieces of the custom of both bridesmaids and groomsmen.

In this day and age the groomsmen have more mild-mannered things that are expected from them. They are as follows:

Before The Wedding Day

• Pay for the cost of personal wedding attire (I.E. tux, shoes, vest etc.) that has been chosen
• Get sized and place a deposit down as soon as possible. The full cost is not usually required up front, but is an option.
• Help the best man pay for the bachelor party. Help plan and set up the party if needed as well.

During The Ceremony & Reception

• You may be asked to help escort guests to their seats.
• Be aware of photos.  Actively participate in getting people together for photos the photographer is trying to acquire.
• Be supportive and helpful.  Don’t wait to be asked to help, offer your assistance whenever you can.
•  Dance. Have fun. Help the other guests get into it and get envolved.
• Be on your best behavior! Be respectful and a good friend. This includes drinking responsibly!

After The Wedding

• Help clean up.
• Help pack gifts into the bride and groom’s vehicle.

Groomsmen are not unlike bridesmaids and vice versa. They are there to support, encourage, and assist the groom just as the bridesmaids are there for the bride. The bridal party offers the amazing potential of a less stressful wedding for the couple, but only if they play an active role. If you have been asked to be groomsmen, prove the groom made a good choice in asking you by fulfilling your duties.