I found it very helpful to go to http://www.brideattraction.com (Natalie Bradley) because there are a variety of programs to fit every budget to take on a practical approach to marketing to brides. She has a very good system. Good luck. We've all been there! I'm working on my new site right now and am excited about what it will be able to do for me very soon.
P.S. I just noticed that Natalie Bradley is mentioned in the previous posts. That's great! A great website is a lot of what she will stress, but there must be elements in it that you won't get from a standard web designer unless you submit these ideas to them. You will get so much good information from her!