4 Ways to Be Happier While Working from Home

Dear Wedding Professional:

Like myself, many wedding professionals work from the comforts of their own home.  While this brings significant perks, it's not without challenges. Today’s advice comes directly from Nellie Alkalp who wrote How to Solve the Top Pitfalls of Working from Home.  According to author Alkalp, here's a breakdown of the top four pitfalls associated with working from home and how to overcome them.

1. You Can't Stay Focused.  It’s not easy to stay focused in the face of countless distractions, from the television to the dirty dishes waiting in the kitchen. And when you’re brand new to working at home, the first danger is that it’s hard to feel like you’re working, simply because you don’t associate your home environment with being at work.  Solution: If you find your work productivity is suffering, you’ll need to come up with a more formal structure for your day.  At the very least, carve out a corner of a room just for work, so going there signals your brain that it’s time to get serious. If you find yourself stuck from time to time, try changing your environment by working at the cafe for an hour or taking a short walk outside. A change in scenery can bring you fresh focus.
2. You Lose Boundaries.  When you’re working at a traditional office job, everyone seems to understand your work schedule. You don’t get many personal calls during the day. You’re not expected to handle all the daily errands. However, all those boundaries go out the window when you’re working from home.  Solution: Just because you work from home doesn't mean your job is any less real than your office counterparts. The key here is to respect your own time and your schedule—because no one else will respect your boundaries if you don’t respect them first.
3. You Work Too Much.  People who work from home often work longer days simply because there’s no separation between work and home.  Without a natural stopping point, the day gets longer and it’s harder to put work aside.  Solution: With most jobs, there’s always going to be more work to do. This means you need to self-regulate and be disciplined about setting a boundary between your work and personal life. This doesn’t have to be every night. However, if you’re serious about working from home for the long haul, you have to make the lifestyle sustainable. And that means you’ll need time away from the computer and stress of work.
4. You Feel Isolated.  The solitude of working from home means fewer distractions and pesky office politics, but the physical separation from colleagues brings an inevitable sense of isolation. Everyone needs social interaction (albeit at varying levels), and working remotely limits your opportunities to connect with others. Many people don’t realize just how much they miss the day-to-day social interaction of the office until it’s gone.  Solution: When you’re working from home, you’ll need to manufacture those social interactions. For example:

• Make a point to schedule lunch or breakfast get-togethers.
• Use social networks such as BridalTweet, Facebook or Twitter to make connections.
• When possible, use real-time communications like phone calls, Skype or chat instead of email.
• Get involved with local networking groups or meetups.

As Alkalp reminds us, this is an exciting time, as technology is giving people more freedom to carve out their own work-styles and career paths. Don’t let these pitfalls deter you. If you want to strike out on your own as an independent worker or just telecommute from home a few days a week, go for it. Just be mindful that there are unique challenges associated with working from home, ones you probably never would have thought about while in the office.

What are some of the things you do to make the work-from-home lifestyle work for you? Please comment below.

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Thank you again for making this a fun and supportive wedding community,


Christine Dyer, Social Media Expert and Founder of BridalTweet