Just wondering what everyone would do in the following situation.
This afternoon I had a vendor appointment with a bride, her mother and a photographer. Two and a half hours before the appointment the MOB called to ask if we could postpone the appointment by 30 minutes. The mother has been very involved in the wedding decision making and the bride has been deferring quite a bit to her. I called the photographer to ask and had to leave a message. As it was getting closer to the scheduled appointment time I still had not heard back from the photographer. I went ahead and told the bride and her mother that it would be okay to meet 30 minutes later than scheduled, but we may have to cut the appointment very short as I still had not heard back from the photographer after calls and texts.
I felt that it may be rude to do this to a vendor, even though I attempted contact multiple times; however, in this situation the mother is just as much of the client as the bride, and she really needed to be there.
Would you all have told the bride to go ahead and come at the scheduled time without her mother and have the mother show up late, or make the decision to adjust the meeting time without having heard back from the vendor?